Do you remember all those kisses
That were blown from your lips and tucked
Inside my heart?
They still have wings and flutter there.
-Dee Slavutin
from Immortal Kisses
Contemplating the eventual death of my parents, I began writing a guide that others may follow in preparation for the turbulence that invariably attends a parent's passing. Entitled Before Your Parents Rest in Peace: How To Celebrate Their Lives and Manage Their Death, this book examines the emotional, spiritual and financial tasks children may undertake as their parents' lives near conclusion. I call this groundwork "completion"...
Making the transition from child to executor - coping with the paper trail
Writing homages and ethical wills
Facing the responsibility of inheritance
Making arrangements before you need them
Collecting parent memorabilia (their favorite... their lucky... their first...)
The process of being complete with one's parents - gestures of remembrance, reconciliation, forgiveness and the exchange of final tributes and blessings - is illustrated step-by-step in my book. Click here to order your copy, or to inquire about seminars or private consultations.